Missing someone is not bed of roses. Months feel like years and years feel like eternity. Everyday you think about them and dream about doing daily chores with them. It just gets harder. But who would you blame? I would blame all those chemicals and hormones in my body that released when I was with my special someone. You make them feel like the most important person you ever met because the voice in your head says, “That they are the one you always wanted.” The depth of emotions you have for them will surprise you.But now, when they are gone your system gets confused and shaken up.
You wish to be with them the entire time. It takes a great deal to control and handle interpersonal relationship empathetically when people decide to leave .
Distance and the feeling of missing had made me physically present and mentally somewhere in the arms of my special one. I dreamt of a safe place. I dreamt of a place where only love resides and a person who loves me unconditionally. Ready to accompany through rough patches of life. Visioning everything with them left me in pain when they were gone.
The painting speaks about bewilderness and a place in my thoughts that actually doesn’t exist. It gives thought to illusion and a disconnection from the present moment. Feeling of nor floating neither existing and just breathing.
The figure in the painting looks at peace which is contradictory to the emotion going through the work is because falling in love taught me a million things. Little things and big things like unlabeling fake love, short love, long relations, dating, serious relations, committed relationship, etc. I learned to love love just the way it is. Being there and caring for them no matter what, has given me a sense of strength, courage and a belief that love will cure worries. Which reflects in the calm face and posture of the figure.
Despite, being in knowledge there is a desire to go from this state of (non-existing place) nowhere to everywhere (a place where I feel wanted and loved).
I fragmented my lipstick four times and observed 12 times but I couldnt find anything inside a lipstick that could make a person beautiful.
Whenever I apply the only red lipstick I own, it disappears in minutes because I eat all of it. It’s a tough struggle to look ‘oh la la’ all round the clock. No, that is not my thing. I’ll just eat this shea butter problem off once and for all.
Facts: Ladies who apply lipstick everyday, eats 4 pounds of lipstick in their lifetime.
I really enjoyed creating this drawing as I used lipstick oil and ink on paper. The mixture of oil and lipstick did not let ink set on paper and that gave me a really good texture and effect. It is always fun experimenting with unconventional mediums. (So far, turmeric is my favourite pigment.)
I call myself an introvert. Because, I can absolutely relate with what
Huffpost has to say about introverts.
Well, Google says, ” in·tro·vert/ˈintrəˌvərt, noun : shy,
reticent person.” But no google, I am nor shy neither reticent.
Moving to a new place and having complete strangers around me forced me to
break my boundaries and go outside my comfort zone. It became more difficult
for me when I started working and met hundreds of new faces everyday. It was
too new peopley outside. They are all beautiful. They smile the same way but
they greet differently. They all look different and talked differently. They
cannot eat spicy like I do but they all love pizzas.
It is very human to connect everything you see with something you already
know or love. I was trying to find the sense of belonging in the new country of
50 states. I was lost and didn’t know were I belong or who I am. I loved Kent,
but I wasn’t native and “I do not belong here” concept kept me struggling. I was
meeting hundred new faces everyday, shaking hands, smiling and secretly trying
to search for identical characteristics in all of them, just to take
comfort and satisfy my need to belong. The drawing follows the state of
my mind which I would describe it as ‘fog of war’ or ‘lost in translation’
Ahh, I was tired of searching for connectedness where, I wasn’t getting any
closer to answering the question of why we feel the need to belong. With time I
grew, learned to embrace differences and newness. It took a long time to understand
that I was resident of this world and I belong here.
To my surprise, I now revere differences. Sign of positive change and growth? OH yes! This series of drawings shows my process of growing and wrestling with bittersweet
experiences. I am slowly, blending in and making it feel like home.
It’s definitely a thrill to receive an offer letter from abroad and it is something that one celebrates! Straight away, my mind was buzzing with questions like what is my university like? Which places I will get to visit? I must start planning my bucket list and a hundred more questions. But when the time comes around to packing your luggage and move across oceans for college, that excitement is no doubt tinged with fear.
I am an Indian and India is a vast and mystical land of cultures, languages, religions and races. It is a country which is emotionally driven and culturally rich. Moving to the United States was a big shift. The United States is described as a “melting pot” in which different cultures come together and add flavours to American culture. I observe, learn and cherish every experience. I am fortunate to have the best of both worlds.
Lot of my work holds the essence of Indian culture and American ideology. I was taught to cover or drape my body with beautiful sarees or colourful dresses for society to perceive me as an ideal woman. I was not against those notions as I have always taken a liking to wear our cultural dresses. Nudity is closely associated with sexuality and sexuality has a huge stigma around it in India. The idea of wearing skin revealing clothes or nudity for that matter is always frowned upon. My ignorance towards appreciating my own body and being confident enough to wear skin revealing clothes never occurred to as an issue until I moved here. America is buoyant and substantial and open-ended. On one hand, India taught me to worship my body and “preserve it”, America illuminates and expands my thoughts to loving my body and appreciating all body positivity. These photographs and paintings are interwoven in a combination of ideologies that have influenced my growth.
Furthermore, I like to experiment with costumes, lights and shadows created mainly by the human body in my paintings and photographs. The beauty of bare skin and bare body is an art in itself and playing around with those as my ingredients for art that I create. Art has changed my perception of human bodies forever.